Draft - companion blog post for 'when caring hurts'
Opening Section:
- Brief intro that references the episode (for context) but immediately pivots to "here's what we're doing today"
- Frame it as: "If you listened to Episode 18, you heard why this matters. Now let's talk about how to actually do something about it."
Section 1: Know Where You Are (Visual + Self-Assessment)
- Infographic showing the compassion fatigue cycle/progression
- Visual comparison chart: Burnout vs. Compassion Fatigue vs. Vicarious Trauma
- Quick self-assessment quiz or checklist readers can screenshot/print
- Nervous system dysregulation signals as a downloadable one-pager
Section 2: Your Weekly Rhythm Chart - The Deep Dive
- Show an example (maybe a sanitized version of yours?)
- Step-by-step instructions on how to create and use it
- Downloadable blank template (PDF and maybe an editable version)
- Tips for what to track and why
- How to use it to identify patterns and set boundaries
Section 3: The Compassion Fatigue Workbook - What to Expect
- What the book actually contains (so people know before buying)
- 2-3 specific exercises you found most helpful (described, not reproduced)
- Who this book is and isn't for
- Direct purchase link
- Alternative free resources if cost is a barrier
Section 4: Trauma Resiliency Training - Making It Happen
- Trauma Resources Institute (TRM Training)
- What it covers
- Cost and time commitment
- Format options
- Direct link
- Community Resilience Initiative
- What they offer (adult/kid resources)
- Training details
- Direct link
- The Professional Development Pitch
- Template email/conversation starter for asking your employer to fund training
- How to frame it as benefiting the organization
- What to do if they say no (alternative funding, payment plans, etc.)
Section 5: Specific Grounding Techniques You Can Use Today
- 3-5 concrete techniques explained clearly
- When to use each one
- Maybe a simple infographic showing breath patterns for regulation
- Downloadable "grounding techniques" card they can keep at their desk
Section 6: Holiday Survival Toolkit (Downloadable)
- Create a one-page PDF "Emergency Kit" with:
- Warning signs checklist
- Three quick grounding techniques
- Boundaries you can set this week
- Your crisis contacts/resources
- Reminder that rest = resistance
Section 7: The Boundaries That Actually Stick
- Specific examples with scripts:
- "I need to tag out on this case"
- "I can't take on new clients right now"
- Saying no to holiday overtime
- Ending sessions on time
- How to handle pushback
- Why these aren't selfish
Section 8: Finding Therapy for Helpers
- Why therapists need therapists
- How to find sliding-scale options
- What to look for in a therapist who gets this work
- Questions to ask in initial consultations
Closing Section:
- Link back to the podcast episode
- Invitation to share what tools they're trying
- Call to action: subscribe, share, connect
Complete Resource Package:
- Weekly Rhythm Chart (Blank Template) - A fillable version of your personal chart with checkboxes, capacity check-ins, and structured prompts for weekdays, evenings, and weekends
- Compassion Fatigue Self-Assessment - A comprehensive checklist organized by categories (Physical, Emotional, Cognitive, Behavioral, Relational) with scoring guidance and next steps
- Nervous System Dysregulation Signals - A visual guide showing four zones (Regulated, Hyperarousal, Hypoarousal, Critical) with specific signals and interventions for each
- Holiday Survival Toolkit - A compact, practical guide with warning signs, quick grounding techniques, boundary scripts, emergency contacts, and strategic sustainability moves
- Grounding Techniques Quick Reference Card - A pocket-sized card (5x7 printable) with 7 techniques, when to use each, and space for emergency contacts
- Professional Development Funding Request Template - Three different formats (formal email, informal email, in-person script) with tips for success, ROI arguments, and what to do if they say no
- Burnout vs. Compassion Fatigue Infographic - A comprehensive visual comparison of all three conditions (burnout, compassion fatigue, vicarious trauma) with definitions, symptoms, key differences, overlap explanation, and specific interventions
All resources are:
- Print-friendly
- Visually organized with color-coding
- Designed to be saved/referenced repeatedly
- Action-oriented with practical next steps
Visual Elements Throughout:
- Pull quotes from your episode (formatted nicely)
- Icons or simple graphics to break up text
- Color-coding for different types of resources (free vs. paid, immediate vs. long-term, etc.)
- Boxes/callouts for key information
- Maybe a visual "decision tree" - "If you're feeling X, try Y resource"
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