Draft - companion blog post for 'when caring hurts'

Opening Section:

  • Brief intro that references the episode (for context) but immediately pivots to "here's what we're doing today"
  • Frame it as: "If you listened to Episode 18, you heard why this matters. Now let's talk about how to actually do something about it."

Section 1: Know Where You Are (Visual + Self-Assessment)

  • Infographic showing the compassion fatigue cycle/progression
  • Visual comparison chart: Burnout vs. Compassion Fatigue vs. Vicarious Trauma
  • Quick self-assessment quiz or checklist readers can screenshot/print
  • Nervous system dysregulation signals as a downloadable one-pager

Section 2: Your Weekly Rhythm Chart - The Deep Dive

  • Show an example (maybe a sanitized version of yours?)
  • Step-by-step instructions on how to create and use it
  • Downloadable blank template (PDF and maybe an editable version)
  • Tips for what to track and why
  • How to use it to identify patterns and set boundaries

Section 3: The Compassion Fatigue Workbook - What to Expect

  • What the book actually contains (so people know before buying)
  • 2-3 specific exercises you found most helpful (described, not reproduced)
  • Who this book is and isn't for
  • Direct purchase link
  • Alternative free resources if cost is a barrier

Section 4: Trauma Resiliency Training - Making It Happen

  • Trauma Resources Institute (TRM Training)
    • What it covers
    • Cost and time commitment
    • Format options
    • Direct link
  • Community Resilience Initiative
    • What they offer (adult/kid resources)
    • Training details
    • Direct link
  • The Professional Development Pitch
    • Template email/conversation starter for asking your employer to fund training
    • How to frame it as benefiting the organization
    • What to do if they say no (alternative funding, payment plans, etc.)

Section 5: Specific Grounding Techniques You Can Use Today

  • 3-5 concrete techniques explained clearly
  • When to use each one
  • Maybe a simple infographic showing breath patterns for regulation
  • Downloadable "grounding techniques" card they can keep at their desk

Section 6: Holiday Survival Toolkit (Downloadable)

  • Create a one-page PDF "Emergency Kit" with:
    • Warning signs checklist
    • Three quick grounding techniques
    • Boundaries you can set this week
    • Your crisis contacts/resources
    • Reminder that rest = resistance

Section 7: The Boundaries That Actually Stick

  • Specific examples with scripts:
    • "I need to tag out on this case"
    • "I can't take on new clients right now"
    • Saying no to holiday overtime
    • Ending sessions on time
  • How to handle pushback
  • Why these aren't selfish

Section 8: Finding Therapy for Helpers

  • Why therapists need therapists
  • How to find sliding-scale options
  • What to look for in a therapist who gets this work
  • Questions to ask in initial consultations

Closing Section:

  • Link back to the podcast episode
  • Invitation to share what tools they're trying
  • Call to action: subscribe, share, connect

Complete Resource Package:

  1. Weekly Rhythm Chart (Blank Template) - A fillable version of your personal chart with checkboxes, capacity check-ins, and structured prompts for weekdays, evenings, and weekends
  2. Compassion Fatigue Self-Assessment - A comprehensive checklist organized by categories (Physical, Emotional, Cognitive, Behavioral, Relational) with scoring guidance and next steps
  3. Nervous System Dysregulation Signals - A visual guide showing four zones (Regulated, Hyperarousal, Hypoarousal, Critical) with specific signals and interventions for each
  4. Holiday Survival Toolkit - A compact, practical guide with warning signs, quick grounding techniques, boundary scripts, emergency contacts, and strategic sustainability moves
  5. Grounding Techniques Quick Reference Card - A pocket-sized card (5x7 printable) with 7 techniques, when to use each, and space for emergency contacts
  6. Professional Development Funding Request Template - Three different formats (formal email, informal email, in-person script) with tips for success, ROI arguments, and what to do if they say no
  7. Burnout vs. Compassion Fatigue Infographic - A comprehensive visual comparison of all three conditions (burnout, compassion fatigue, vicarious trauma) with definitions, symptoms, key differences, overlap explanation, and specific interventions

All resources are:

  • Print-friendly
  • Visually organized with color-coding
  • Designed to be saved/referenced repeatedly
  • Action-oriented with practical next steps

Visual Elements Throughout:

  • Pull quotes from your episode (formatted nicely)
  • Icons or simple graphics to break up text
  • Color-coding for different types of resources (free vs. paid, immediate vs. long-term, etc.)
  • Boxes/callouts for key information
  • Maybe a visual "decision tree" - "If you're feeling X, try Y resource"